Want a Wife Piece of Moon

We have a common perception here that a boy is only seen in terms of his job, education and home, not his looks. So can someone tell me what is the fault of the girls?
There was very little time left for the guests to arrive and she was still looking at herself from every angle in the mirror on the wall, as always. Sometimes she would go closer to the mirror, sometimes further away, sometimes she would loosen her hair, sometimes she would tie it, sometimes she would smile, sometimes she would suddenly become serious. While doing all this, I don't know how many tears came out of her eyes and were absorbed into the ground. Even today, while getting ready, she was wondering how long?

As always, Amma's face had a mixed expression of worry and anger, what was Amma's fault? If I had been beautiful too, all this would not have happened today. As soon as the tea tray was placed in front of the guests, she would be showered with questions, the answers to which she had always given with great fluency. But alas, she still did not pass.  Late at night, the phone rang and seeing the look of disappointment on Amma's face, she understood that the boys had refused. She was rejected even today, just because she is an educated girl with a normal appearance and appearance, an expert in housekeeping, but not as beautiful as Miss Universe, she lacks grace, style and manners.
This is the story that we see today in every other house in our "so-called" educated society. No matter what class you belong to, if you have a daughter, then you too will have to become a character in this story. They say that daughters are shared by everyone, but in reality, only your own daughter is yours. This is the tradition of our society that you love your daughter more than your life and take the life of someone else's daughter! If you find flaws in someone's daughter and imagine that this evil will be replaced by goodness, then this is complete stupidity.
 What religious values ​​are we following today where parents have to groom their daughter to be a part of their family and present her in front of all kinds of people with different ideas? A joke often comes to my mind on social media that, “Even if your own son is a piece of husk, your daughter-in-law wants a piece of the moon.” The general perception in our society is that only a boy’s job, education and home are considered, not his appearance. So can someone also tell me what is the fault of girls? Why is there a double standard with this gender? Why is the complexion, health and appearance of girls looked at? And why are character, household chores, good manners and morals ignored? This social situation has made girls and their parents as well as them hopeless and depressed. I don’t know where this custom of going door to door, criticizing and bringing honor to the family has come from in our society. But I know for sure that this matter needs to be corrected immediately and it is possible only when our thinking changes.  If a boy goes to a girl's house with the intention of finding a daughter-in-law instead of looking for a queen of beauty and thinks that if he criticizes someone's daughter today, tomorrow his own daughter may also be the target of this, then I am sure that this thought will definitely raise their backward thinking so high that they will think 10 times before rejecting any girl on the basis of her dark complexion, general appearance and height. Beauty is not everything, in fact, a person needs good morals, character and character.
We need to purify our thinking so that we can learn to judge a person by character instead of appearance. Along with this, in this matter, girls should also not consider themselves inferior in any way and instead of listening to the useless things of people, focus on strengthening their personality. They should entrust these matters to Allah Almighty with faith because Allah Almighty has made a pair for everyone, it is just a matter of meeting them sooner or later.